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Ladine
02-05-2011, 04:46 PM
information it needs often come across various articles. sometimes very surprised at people's attitudes to their own lives and actions. sometimes part of the conversation does not correspond to reality. often in our lives we find such a situation where a strongly contradicted themselves. In words, we categorically refuse to talk about sex but in real life is usually us it is very concerned. and care for so much that without hesitation give their thoughts on the world.

I read the story recently and would like to share this story with you.
We all know that some men can be pedant ...So, here is the story (not mine):

One day my grandmother told me that her friend (a girl) from work had a boyfriend which tried to date her and he followed her around everywhere.
He was terrible pedant and even worse then that. So once, when they agreed to meet each other, he saw the strap of her bra while she was walking down the stairs.
The strap of her bra was not very white and did not look so clean as it should be. I would say it was understandable, not surprising because it was hot summer day and she worked hard all day.
But after he saw this strap he left her without any explanation and she never saw him again.

As you can see a lot of psycho out there and I am sure it was a lot and still exist some. Can you imagine there still some guys which try to fit the color of the tie to their underwear color ?
And they probably waiting and expecting the same from the woman.

People all are very various. And often happens so.... The man and the woman have liked each other. But... The pedantry of one and simplicity of another often impede to develop attitudes. How you think it is possible to find the compromise in this situation?