body language

[rainy-day]

if you'd wonder what to trust more: someone's words, or someone's body language, there is just one answer for this: THE BODY LANGUAGE.

how people react will say the truth about their thoughts or intentions.

i like to study body language and there are many things which show the interest, the lie, even the love.

[Masichka]

if you'd wonder what to trust more: someone's words, or someone's body language, there is just one answer for this: THE BODY LANGUAGE.

how people react will say the truth about their thoughts or intentions.

i like to study body language and there are many things which show the interest, the lie, even the love.


That's true, body language quite often tells more than usual words. The problem is to interpret it right and not to jump to a conclusion right away because a sign can be not necessary a sign :) Besides, to interpret a person's behaviour we need to know if she or he is visual, audio or kinesthetic type and so on...

[Lucker]

Rainy
I agree that for most people, Body Language provides the sub text .
But be careful because there is a group which know how to hide the truth incredibly well -- some of them we call Charmers . Others we call Con men and Fraudsters .
And being deceptive is easily learned --- it is quite easy to beat the Lie Detector Tests , for example , because they have nothing to do with literal lie telling . Rather , they measure stress levels -- sweat rate etc . These can be controlled with practise .
So when you meet someone who interests you , pretend to know nothing about Body Language but ask them what they believe or know . Most will then let you know indirectly how well they understand and use the system .Now you can be in charge, if that is what you wish . imho .

[rainy-day]

i think the best way to lie is to believe what you say, and to have all the feeling this "truth" brings.

for instance: if you lie that your husband beats you, you have to believe it so much as to convince yourself this is true, and together with this to have all the negative feelings this "beating" brings. if you are convinced about it, other will be convinced too.

with the lie is more difficult to hide yourself when you are surprised with a question, if someone asks you a question which has no connection with what you are talking about, a question you have to answer honestly and instantly. it is much difficult to hide yourself, because the body reacts in advanced.

[Lucker]

I will take it a stage further , Rainy , and suggest that the vast majority of people who consider themselves normal and nice are consistent liars .
Examples .
How people read ---
Selective
How people see and report
Selective
How people discuss and argue
Selective
How people assess the Past
Selective
How people believe they tell the Truth
Selective , see previous .
In summary , every body has to create a little world which leaves them in a comfort zone .
Anything which seems to upset their little world is ignored or simply rejected as being "Unacceptable " , or , " Rubbish".
People are remarkably shallow , stupid and inconsistent if you analyse in depth .
And selfish beyond belief .

[Crushik]

if you'd wonder what to trust more: someone's words, or someone's body language, there is just one answer for this: THE BODY LANGUAGE.

how people react will say the truth about their thoughts or intentions.

i like to study body language and there are many things which show the interest, the lie, even the love.


be honest, to me the best method of showing real fellings are a real acts and not the words
( every days blablabla ), body*s language shows only a physical attraction to person and not psychological. Too much often they are divided :cool: