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zforz
11-07-2010, 04:39 AM
my girlfriend has now for the second time been breaking in my email...
How could you feel about......I was shocked and sad....I lost all trust in her.
sirène
11-07-2010, 04:41 AM
How do you know it was she?
I would be upset if any one broke my pass words, read my e-mails.
But I gave my passwords to my girlfriend.That was trust.
Of course changed them when we broke apart.
Voobrazheniye
11-07-2010, 08:30 AM
my girlfriend has now for the second time been breaking in my email...
How could you feel about......I was shocked and sad....I lost all trust in her.
She broke into your email once before and she was STILL your girlfriend? You should have sent her packing after the first time!
belano4ka
11-07-2010, 09:15 AM
maybe there was the reason for her to do so ? are you too flirtatious with females )) perhaps she has some trust issues
KeenanRocks
11-07-2010, 09:25 AM
I would not care. I would go and break into her email just to show her how it feels.. I have nothing to hide--anyone want my password?
Lucky
11-07-2010, 11:10 AM
I would not care. I would go and break into her email just to show her how it feels.. I have nothing to hide--anyone want my password?
can u ofer me yr bank account too? :biggrin:
Lucky
11-07-2010, 11:16 AM
such things for me means lack of trust... from both sides... if is a couple always matter of both... if she did this maybe didnt trust u? but now u cant trust her... is difficult to trust after TWO times when she did so... is difficult to say smth as we dont know why she did it... maybe really she had her reasons... doesnt matter from which side to look on this point - the matter of trust is broken((
KeenanRocks
11-07-2010, 11:17 AM
can u ofer me yr bank account too? :biggrin:
hey if you marry me it is yours--you can have anything I got.. :biggrin:
Ilona
11-07-2010, 11:26 AM
Really, if you didn't want her to see your e-mail messages, then there was something in them you didn't want to share with her. You hadn't trust her before she broke your password. She may have felt there was something for you to hide from her. She didn't trust you either. And both of you had lost your trust in each other BEFORE that incident. Who is to blame for? I think, you are to blame. Why didn't she trust you to do such a disgraceful thing?
Lucky
11-07-2010, 11:33 AM
hey if you marry me it is yours--you can have anything I got.. :biggrin:
aha... yeh... and after u sell me for one night for 1 million... :biggrin:
KeenanRocks
11-07-2010, 11:39 AM
aha... yeh... and after u sell me for one night for 1 million... :biggrin:
Maybe I should rethink that last answer because some things are just to precious to sell, and this would apply to you:dirol:
zforz
11-07-2010, 12:28 PM
ok more explanations
she is still my gf....As i am aware of her extraodinary jalious ways. so I dont say when I get a mail from former wife or gf......She is so insecure and nothing can help.
Some former gf friend wrote me a mail to express her feelings about the breakup
she had with me.So her words were nice and warm in that mail.But as manny of you know you dont go back after a separation. Anyhow I dont know.As well my african traveling brought a lot of negative fantasies with it.
I am complitly faithfull but find this unbarable. I personaly dont even feel to take something out of her bag without asking it.
pouffe
11-07-2010, 04:42 PM
What do you mean by privacy? have you been biten?
saprosky
11-07-2010, 06:31 PM
There are 2 options:
- If you give her your password means you dont have nothing to hide and if now she is reading your messages, so shut up and hold on to it.
- If you dont give to her your password (the best choice IMHO) then you have a hacker as gf and you should kick her popka out of your life
There are 2 options:
- If you give her your password means you dont have nothing to hide and if now she is reading your messages, so shut up and hold on to it.
- If you dont give to her your password (the best choice IMHO) then you have a hacker as gf and you should kick her popka out of your life
3rd option, but her to work for you.:biggrin:
saprosky
11-07-2010, 06:39 PM
3rd option, but her to work for you.:biggrin:
Then apply 2nd choice, never share passwords.
My experience say is the best choice. Same computer but differents users with passwords. And my account with admin privileges, of course :biggrin:
Lucky
11-07-2010, 06:41 PM
meeting... tomorrow evening... the third tree on the left hand from the right fountain on the main street... :Laie_95:
Sorry to say can not make that meeting, be out trying to find woman to sell for million $. ;)
But another time maybe?
Lucky
11-07-2010, 07:04 PM
u just like all man(( told any thing, ANY time, any place :sad: i believed u...
Now dear, do not be upset, how else could I afford that extended vacation in south america, on the beach, with strange drinks with little umbrellas in them.
Lucky
11-07-2010, 07:14 PM
second chance... lets make a deal... u work when u need and after we share millions together... how about this place? lets hide from the world over here... :Laie_80:
http://www.planetware.com/i/photo/colorado-river-indian-reservation-parker-az0074.jpg
Done deal. :) But can not see the place, is this new girl mystery?
Lucky
11-07-2010, 07:23 PM
hm... no mystery... im open and clear like a white page ))
only a picture... when i post it i saw... but after i renew a page dont (( strange... one time i see... one time not...
bummer, but glad you said, thought it was my 'puter again.
Lucky
11-07-2010, 07:37 PM
try to use this link... amazing picture!
http://www.planetware.com/picture/parker-colorado-river-indian-reservation-us-az0074.htm
Still could not see pic., but I know this place. And so looks good to me, I will bring drinks, you bring little umbrellas.;)
zforz
11-07-2010, 09:39 PM
to lucky and cnn .... maybe you have fun but my tread was not ment for your confort and sunday chat...
now I ask how you feel if such thing hapen to you....no input
zforz
11-07-2010, 09:50 PM
What do you mean by privacy? have you been biten?
I feel that every person can have some thought a conversation a letter adressed to a particular person without sharing that with wife or girl friend. I told her that I dont check on her if she smiles to a particular guy or not at her school.
I feel if a woman or man starts to check their partners than you will always find a reason to be hurt.
She is not a hacker just looked over my head when I was opening mail to see my paswords.
I have nothing you hide but dont need to be checked.....and to one lady here above thinking I have done something bad to my gf...she has a strange way to judge a man so fast ...she has a fast negative judgement of my person.that without background info.
maybe you are ussed of russia men cheating... we westerners are much more faithfull.....
belano4ka
11-07-2010, 09:50 PM
if my bf ,broke into my e-mail...he did in the past lol...it means I provoked his jealousy and mistrust in me,and I know I that I have done it)))
belano4ka
11-07-2010, 09:54 PM
I have nothing you hide but dont need to be checked.....and to one lady here above thinking I have done something bad to my gf...she has a strange way to judge a man so fast ...she has a fast negative judgement of my person.that without background info.
was this comment about me ))) I don't judge you negatively...but sometimes men look at passing female in funny way and that's it it can trigger girlfriend's feelings
to lucky and cnn .... maybe you have fun but my tread was not ment for your confort and sunday chat...
now I ask how you feel if such thing hapen to you....no input
My apology to you for the off topic.
I Had a very jealous wife, so I can understand your thoughts on this, it is a violation of trust, and a disrespect of you.
There is nothing worse between a man and woman then being accused of what you have not done.
I tried for many years to get her to understand, but it was to no good, then I realized this was her way to control, and her power,(in her mind), that was when I set her down and told her why we would devoice.
My experience is one who is jealous, hides something them self.
Turn it around on her and watch the reaction,(but only if you are ready to break through, or break up).
if my bf ,broke into my e-mail...he did in the past lol...it means I provoked his jealousy and mistrust in me,and I know I that I have done it)))
How can you take responsibility for another's actions?
This was a action hes choice, why not just ask you what is up?
Feelings come from thoughts, not the other way around, we choose what we think.
zforz
11-08-2010, 04:19 AM
My apology to you for the off topic.
I Had a very jealous wife, so I can understand your thoughts on this, it is a violation of trust, and a disrespect of you.
There is nothing worse between a man and woman then being accused of what you have not done.
I tried for many years to get her to understand, but it was to no good, then I realized this was her way to control, and her power,(in her mind), that was when I set her down and told her why we would devoice.
My experience is one who is jealous, hides something them self.
Turn it around on her and watch the reaction,(but only if you are ready to break through, or break up).
if my bf ,broke into my e-mail...he did in the past lol...it means I provoked his jealousy and mistrust in me,and I know I that I have done it)))
but as I feel I am involved with a verry insecure woman and she will always try to know what could hurt her.and as cnn say its her way of control.
rainy-day
11-10-2010, 11:14 PM
my girlfriend has now for the second time been breaking in my email...
How could you feel about......I was shocked and sad....I lost all trust in her.
this is a very good sign of untrust. I think you should talk to her. I would never, ever, give my e-mail passwords to anybody, not even my husband (and I would not ask for it, of course). he must trust me, cause this is the base of any relationship, no matter if we are talking here about friendship, love, or business. is impossible to build something without trust.
talk to her and tell her how you feel. try to understand what makes her do this. usually gealousy is a sign of lack of confidence in herself, so try to make her feel confident about you. if it doesnt work, then you should split up. gealousy brings too much pain and the end will be the same with a bit too much hate in the middle.
rainy-day
11-10-2010, 11:18 PM
this obsession for control from the other one will transform an innocent person in a liar, cause every small gesture can be interpreted.
maybe this is just the top of the iceberg which has a huge base. try to understand her way, but if she is insecure that's not your problem anymore. is her problem and every man that will ever be involved with her will be in this unpleasant point.