Battle of the Sexes - Битва полов

[Gabber]

Уважаемые дамы и мужские: Каждый вторник мы будем размещать опрос с одним вопросом. Победитель - мужчины или женщины - будут награждены 250 Казино точки (да, я знаю ...) и те, которые участвовали в опросе будет благодетелей.

Ladies and Gents: Every Tuesday we will post a poll with one question. The winner - men or women - will be awarded 250 Casino points (yes I know...) and those that participated in the Poll will be the benefactors.

Первый вопрос от 2008 вопросник, который попросил 500 мужчин следующий вопрос, так что выбирайте, что вы думаете люди голосовали, когда их число один выбор:

Что мужчины считают самым привлекательным в женщине?


The first question is from a 2008 questionnaire that asked 500 men the following question, so choose what you think the men voted as their number one choice:

What do men find most attractive in a woman?

1. Her eyes - Глаза
2. Her personality - Ее личность
3. Her height - Ее высота
4. Her smile - Ее улыбка
5. None of the above - Ничего из вышеперечисленного

[lizzchen]

Of course I don't know what do men think about it, but I would say - her personality :)

[Shadow-off]

I could never just pick one thing but her brest size, legs, and sexy slim butt aren't in consideration by me; I don't care about this.

Personality is important; if she is extroverted and really outgoing socialite, I'm not interested as I am more on the other side of the scale. I'm also not attracted to overly Independent and loaudly assertive women because I believe in equality and teamwork.

Beautiful face and slim figure not adorned with jewls and heavy makeup. I like natural beauty in a woman.

This is why I think Jessica Alba is very attractive but I am not attracted to Kim Kardashian.

[belano4ka]

I don't care what male population of the forum will say ,but the real answer is nice fugure and big boobs(it's optional),but figure is essential for guysThat's it :)

[Shadow-off]

I am just using those Actresses as an example. Fact is in LL there are many many women more beautiful to me than either of them. Gabby would be an example.

[jimsan]

There are of course many things that make a woman attractive to me but initially I am most concerned about her height, I like taller women.

:)

[Mnguy2007]

I would have to change #5 to all of the above.
A woman's eyes and smile combined will draw my attention.
I truly think you can tell a lot about a person by looking into their eyes.
When you add a sincere smile there seems to be a sparkle that I find irresistible.
I know it may sound cliche but true.
Height is not so important but I am 6'-1" so I don't think I would want to be with a woman that would tower over me.
With all that being said her personality is really what is most important because who she is will sustain my desires to be with her.

[Sveta's Hero]

It doesn't matter to me if anyone believes or not. Eveyone believes what they want.

But for me, it honestly is her personality most of all. Of course I think my girl looks amazing, but I fell in love with her personality. She's so full of life and energy. She's very intelligent, and she has a great sense of humor. When we met, we were only friends, and nothing more, but as I got to know her better, I couldn't help but to fall in love.

So, no one can tell me otherwise about what I am attracted to. Only I know this.

[Gabber]

I don't care what male population of the forum will say ,but the real answer is nice fugure and big boobs(it's optional),but figure is essential for guysThat's it :)

it's not what men on this forum say...the answer has already been determined from a questionnaire done 2 years ago.

[Gabber]

Maybe I did not explain well. You have to choose what the final result of the questionnaire is/was from 2008. It was a valid questionnaire run by a marketing company...thus the Battle of the Sexes

[belano4ka]

oh,ok...I'll say eyes

[belano4ka]

I am just using those Actresses as an example. Fact is in LL there are many many women more beautiful to me than either of them. Gabby would be an example.

who is Gabby? do you mean Gabber?:eek: :confused::smokin:

[Mnguy2007]

Ok I should have read it better.
Then I say #5 none of the above.

[CMM7]

EYES, with out a doubt.
When I actuly voted in the poll, as soon as it registered, the next page came up blank, instead of returning to the forum.

belonka4ka,
yours are beautiful, and that is why you hide them?

[Gabber]

who is Gabby? do you mean Gabber?:eek: :confused::smokin:

heyyyyyy, damn my tight butt...no more exercising

[Gabber]

EYES, with out a doubt.
When I actuly voted in the poll, as soon as it registered, the next page came up blank, instead of returning to the forum.

belonka4ka,
yours are beautiful, and that is why you hide them?

I programmed your profile so that everything comes out whacky, just me fooling around. (kidding). Checked myself, seems ok

[Sveta's Hero]

I voted, and stick with what I chose: Personality:rolleyes:

[Crushik]

I would hear from men that they are attracted by lady*s personality and therefore I have voted for this point, but.... really they are not... they are attracted by a big boobs and butt :lol: :yield:

[belano4ka]

EYES, with out a doubt.
When I actuly voted in the poll, as soon as it registered, the next page came up blank, instead of returning to the forum.

belonka4ka,
yours are beautiful, and that is why you hide them?

thanks..I'll tell you one secret,it's not the eyes ...it's the right make-up makes them so :):smokin:

[krevedko]

Ok I should have read it better.
Then I say #5 none of the above.

Is is it because tits and legs are not in the list? :rolleyes: :kuku:


upd: just read the rest of the posts in the thread. omg, i think this is the first time in the past several years that I find myself in total agreement with Crushik :becky::becky::becky:

[Iva-61]

Какие глаза? Какая ещё там личность????

НОГИ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Mnguy2007]

Is is it because tits and legs are not in the list? :rolleyes: :kuku:


upd: just read the rest of the posts in the thread. omg, i think this is the first time in the past several years that I find myself in total agreement with Crushik :becky::becky::becky:

yes yes and butt also:becky:

[krevedko]

Какие глаза? Какая ещё там личность????

НОГИ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"Ноги, крылья... Главное хвост! Вот!" (с)

http://byaki.net/uploads/posts/2008-04/1207497216_45.jpg

[Koshka]

Какие глаза? Какая ещё там личность????

НОГИ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

a cruel realety ! :becky:

[Soulmate-Africa]

I would hear from men that they are attracted by lady*s personality and therefore I have voted for this point, but.... really they are not... they are attracted by a big boobs and butt :lol: :yield:

Big boobs maybe:becky: big butt not so sure about:confused:

[statajack]

I would have a sizeable wager that personality received the highest vote. It IS politically correct after all! :smokin:

[Koshka]

What do men find most attractive in a woman?
I do not know because I am not a man but men prefer to lie that woman's personality :p :lol:

[statajack]

I do not know because I am not a man but men prefer to lie that woman's personality :p :lol:

Au contraire, oh Kosh of the Russki tribe. The visual impact of personality is positively scintillating! :becky:

[Koshka]

Au contraire, oh Kosh of the Russki tribe. The visual impact of personality is positively scintillating! :becky:

:lol: :lol: :lol: :eek:

[Sveta's Hero]

I do not know because I am not a man but men prefer to lie that woman's personality :p :lol:

Why does it have to be lie??? Who said attraction has to be visual only?

[yankee]

In all seriousness, her interest in me is most imortant. Without that things just wont get started

[Koshka]

Why does it have to be lie??? Who said attraction has to be visual only?

say us that you chose your wife with closed eyes :p ;)

[Sveta's Hero]

say us that you chose your wife with closed eyes :p ;)

It was her wonderful personality that attracted me most, and that's also what made me fall in love with her. I'm not a liar, and that's how it is, whether you choose to believe it or not.

[statajack]

say us that you chose your wife with closed eyes :p ;)

Funnily enough, the converse is actually far more deceptive!

To coin a quote from Forrest Gump - "Life is a box of chocolates. You never know what you're going to get!". Nice and shiny and chocolaty on the outside, but inside.........! :rolleyes:

[Koshka]

Funnily enough, the converse is actually far more deceptive!

To coin a quote from Forrest Gump - "Life is a box of chocolates. You never know what you're going to get!". Nice and shiny and chocolaty on the outside, but inside.........! :rolleyes:

Forrest Gump is the one of my favourite books :peace: (not the movie ;) )

[Voobrazheniye]

I didn't see "her heart" on the list.

So... I guess I'll just have to go with tits and ass.

Paul (just joking) :brick:

[pouffe]

For me it's the mix of all the above.

[Lucky]

Какие глаза? Какая ещё там личность????

НОГИ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"ноги, крыля... главное хвост!!!" как в мултике говоритса :lol:

[Lucky]

"Ноги, крылья... Главное хвост! Вот!" (с)

http://byaki.net/uploads/posts/2008-04/1207497216_45.jpg

ops!!! :yield:

вот ето я называю единомыслием :lol:

[Sarah]

I really like your discussions here, but you all missed one very graphic description here...
Shadow says -
I could never just pick one thing but her brest size, legs, and sexy slim butt aren't in consideration by me...
Try to find the clue in this phrase... it is actually self-speaking
:lol::lol::lol:

[Koshka]

I really like your discussions here, but you all missed one very graphic description here...
Shadow says -
I could never just pick one thing but her brest size, legs, and sexy slim butt aren't in consideration by me...
Try to find the clue in this phrase... it is actually self-speaking
:lol::lol::lol:

The Kindom of Unconscious ! :cool:

[Koshka]

Battle of the Sexes A Gender Misunderstanding ;)

[Shadow-off]

"who is Gabby"

Gabby is the screen name of a beautiful woman that lives in St.Petersburg, Russia. She is a tour guide as I recall. She appeared in LL about a year or so ago. Some of the older members probably remember her. I'm not sure she is here anylonger.

I think that women often feel that the only thing men consider is looks. That is probably never the case. Many men, myself included are looking for a combination of attributes in relation to compatability and looks is one of them but it is not the only things but it is also manditory. A supermodel with a poor personality wouldn't work for me; both looks and other compatibility factors.

Women have a negative tendency to focus and capatilize on one of a number of statements that a man may make and use that one thing that was said as an argument, or discredit to the man. I don't know why women do this but it is unnecessary and not ligitimate. Many women and some men make the statement about me " He likes young girls 21 and up. Yes that's right and all other women of all other ages too.

People might say "Why do you like being around women not in your age group?" I see them as being just as intelligent and interesting as any woman in my age group. I am an advocate of justice and as such I do not like social segregation based on age. I see nothing wrong with women in their 20's being friends with me. What do YOU think about when you think of this ? Is it positive or negative and why.

If it is negative then tell why you think adult people should teach school ? Why do they want to make their career around children ? You see, I can manipulated that into something negative and untrue just as some people do with me unjustly. I think people should stop thinking negatively and stop assuming negative things that don't exist and also stop sterotyping and segregating people unjustly.

If I had a wife that was 25 years old I would not be doing anything that I wouldn't do in marriage with someone that was 60 years old if I were married to them. Where does preversion exist in your mind here ? It is only in your mind and you must understand you have this problem and understand that in most cases of younger older couples or friendship nothing perverted is happening just normal interaction between people. I fault the media for this because of stories of criminal people doing criminal things. Reality is much different than the tabloids and the news.

[Mnguy2007]

Shadow
Don't take this as an attack because it is not meant as one.
Perhaps what your feeling from others is due to lack of consistency.
I recall post were you have said that you don't feel anything in common with older women.
That only younger women could keep up with you.
If that is true is it consistent with what your now writing?

I think even the people that are against large age gap relationship would agree that they can work.
I don't think love has any boundaries. Age, race, origin of up bringing, income can all be a factor for some people but really it is an individual choice.
In my opinion a person opens up to being a target when they seek what is out of societies norm. Interracial relationships work because the people involved are strong enough to ignore
the negative views other may have. Reality is that some people will be against anyone else
being happier than they are.

Again in my opinion it is when a person openly targets a certain attribute for a relationship that they expose themselves to a greater amount of criticism.

[Calibret]

Do we have to wait for the poll to be over to see who voted for what?

[bobbyd]

Do we have to wait for the poll to be over to see who voted for what?

yes, but only this time. Next poll will be public

[Shadow-off]

Mnguy2007:

Thank you for your reply and diplomacy of its delivery.

"Don't take this as an attack because it is not meant as one.
Perhaps what your feeling from others is due to lack of consistency.
I recall post were you have said that you don't feel anything in common with older women.
That only younger women could keep up with you.
If that is true is it consistent with what your now writing?"

I do recall posting something to that effect:

I am often very attracted to older women and I don't want say that I'm not.
What probably is factual about what I had previously said, is that I am a very free sprited and carefree person in life and most women my age, near my age and beyond may not feel comfortable with my lackidasical lifestyle and might find me immature for my age. I'm sorta like a switch track on a railroad, in that I can be just as responsible and mature as anyone but I do it only when necessary because it is more comfortable for me to not be. This gives me the ability to interact and socialize with the homeless, a political leader, radical hood culture, medical professionals and most social groups of people. I'm not stuck on any one social group. LOL It gives me the ability to be sort of like a social double agent. LOL I can hang with the KKK one minute and the Black Liberation Army the next :becky: Police or drug gangs; and survive everything and everyone. I have a very high intelligence about social interaction within most social groups. Because of this interassociation and hang out most women my age would cringe about whom I associate with. I also have a refine ability to read people; how they look at me person to person and through their writing. I know who likes me and whom doesn't and what their game is before they move the first piece. The one thing I don't do is adopt a group or focus on the undertakings of any particular group. As such younger women are much more receptive and understanding of my multi-socialization and may find it interesting and educational. It sometimes gets interesting for me too; especially when I am around four or five grown men chanting about buring the Quran and articulating their desires to assassinate government people where my values are much less violent and much more peace oriented and diplomatic. As such one learns to pseudo sympathize and not speak whole truth for the sake of survival. :becky: Besides some of these older Russian girls enjoy traveling to Iran, Afganistan, Syria, Lebanon and other dangerous places :becky:

[Gabber]

here is your answer:

Although many men say that it is a woman's personality which counts in attraction, this also depends on their personality. So what do men find attractive in a woman. For starters definitely her smile, her confidence, her nurturing side, her voice, and of course her sexual attributes too. If men did not find women attractive, I would not be here writing this article and you would not be reading it.

Every woman looks different to every man, and the man may also be looking at her from two different points of view. For example there is sexual interest, as in I would like to f*#k that "Eagles" cheerleader, but I would not want to marry her. If you know what I mean! Choosing a woman as a life partner has a whole other connotation to it than displaying mere sexual interest.

Strangely enough number one on the top ten list of what men find attractive in women is their smile, not the fact that they can cook like his mother. (although this is important too). Men a re strongly visually attracted to a woman who has a special smile, and if they smile with their eye, even better. The smile of a woman is one of the main factors a man visualizes when he is not with his special lady and he thinks of her.

Men enjoy it when a woman is feminine, but don't worry, you are still able to wear a pair of jeans or shorts and appear feminine. It is just that caring, nurturing side of femininity which appeals to them. Just because a man enjoys femininity in a woman, does not mean you have to float round all day cooking his meals in your Barbara Cartland get-up! Men are all still little boys at heart so they love to be cared for.

Another major feature of attraction is the voice, you will know if a many loves the sound of your voice, because he will make small talk just to hear you speak. Or call you up throughout the day just to say hi, so he can hear you speak. Guys are also attracted to women with, great hair (color goes according to their own preference), who are un-materialistic, comfortable and confident with strong personalities.


Last Weeks Winners - 3 women (alenika LadySS Landia) and 2 men (Voobrazheniye zforz )so the women win the first of 4 challenges

Последние победители недели - 3 женщины (alenika LadySS Landia) и 2 мужчины (Voobrazheniye zforz), поэтому женщины выиграть первый из 4 проблемы