How long can you resist?

[Gabbibo]

in one day i waked up with my left leg:)
sms-ed my bfriend and said : ENOUGH !!!!!!!! i want a real bfriend and not online oder on the phone, i am hot blooded, i want love, sex, to go to the party not alone, to cook every morning to someone my b...it of omlet, to go on Sunday to my parents lunch with someone, to do that, that and that....... do what u want, but i am going to contuinue my real life

i thought he reacts negative but today...:yo:, i am near him

my answer at how long can u resist is: i dont waste my time
what about you?

[Calgary1966]

Not long for me. If it looks like its going to be a long drawn out affair for some reason then I am out of there. Doubt is a deal killer for me. Too often I meet women, especially from LL for some reason, who have self doubt and can't commit to the here and now


Peace,

Dean

:faint:

[Masichka]

Our virtual communication with my husband and our short and rare meetings in reality went on for more than 3 years :eek: Scary, is not it?:D But from the perspective of today I believe that people should try to be together as soon as possible....

[krevedko]

in one day i waked up with my left leg:)
sms-ed my bfriend and said : ENOUGH !!!!!!!!

I'm worried about you. Where was your right leg at the time of your awakening? Out partyingt? :JC_humpy:

Diana, you're a mature and responsible individual. You should keep strict inventory of body parts. :D

[zoroooo]

Not long for me. If it looks like its going to be a long drawn out affair for some reason then I am out of there. Doubt is a deal killer for me. Too often I meet women, especially from LL for some reason, who have self doubt and can't commit to the here and now


Peace,

Dean

:faint:


many have a local boyfriend so they can wait and wait too an extent ... that was told me by a ukrainian girl.

dont shoot ladies.

[Neilikka]

Don't you take any chance to have a romance with a local girl? Do you always write your pen-friend girls about this? I don't think anybody puts all eggs into one basket as it often repeated on LL.
It's really very important for both of those who met each other in the Internet to meet in a real life. . Otherwise they can be called risky and adventurous persons.:yo:

[zoroooo]

Don't you take any chance to have a romance with a local girl? Do you always write your pen-friend girls about this? I don't think anybody puts all eggs into one basket as it often repeated on LL.
It's really very important for both of those who met each other in the Internet to meet in a real life. . Otherwise they can be called risky and adventurous persons.:yo:

how many egs you need in your basket.....My friend has a big farm..maybe he can get you help ?:D

[Neilikka]

Is your friend a successful farmer& How many egs do his chicks proce yearly? I am not quite sure if it's enough for me/ But try to find out!:hug:

[Soulmate-Africa]

Don't you take any chance to have a romance with a local girl? Do you always write your pen-friend girls about this? I don't think anybody puts all eggs into one basket as it often repeated on LL.
It's really very important for both of those who met each other in the Internet to meet in a real life. . Otherwise they can be called risky and adventurous persons.:yo:

No I dont take that chance.:thumb:My hart belong to her and only her and everything else
on me:p:p:p

[vitashenka]

I can wait as long as its needed :faint: But i have to know that its lead to something i expacting

[Lonewolf74]

I have had a couple of long distance relationships and i managed to resist very well....unfortunately my ex's didnt ...

V

[Voobrazheniye]

Diana... I agree with you completely. The anticipation of having all those things in your relationship really is NOTHING until you actually have it.

It sucks to be in love with someone, but still go home to an empty house or go to sleep in an empty bed. It sucks to not have that person you truly love on your arm or holding your hand as you walk through a park or along a river. The most beautiful moments in life are those "small moments" like visiting friends or relatives together, going together to a theater, or just bringing her a cup of coffee in the morning as she is waking up.

These are the things that make life worthwhile, and to have these things, you have to be in a REAL relationship with REAL love. So, how long do we wait for it? How much of our lives do we let pass us by before we have what we deserve? And why do some of us wait SOOOO long on some long-distance, virtual relationship that may or may not finally lead to the real thing?

If you have enough faith, as Victoria and Rob did for three years, then when your faith is finally rewarded, the wait will seem worth it. But it seems to me that all of us get to a point where we can't wait much longer to trade our empty lives for full ones. Especially as we get older.

But, as I write this, it seems that I must be a hypocirte. I have been wating for someone for two years now. Waiting for her to be ready for what I am offering. Some days I think that the waiting is crazy and I should just forget about her and find someone else. But other times, I realize that I do LOVE this woman more than anyone I have ever known. So, I have no choice but to wait, because if I gave up and went to someone else, it would be a fake... my heart would still be where it is now.

I will add this, however: I have not sat back and tried to "win" her through long-distance communication. Part of the reason that I made the choice to relocate to Ukraine was because I was ready for a change and felt this was the right place for me to be. Part, of course, was to develop my business. But the biggest reason I made this decision was to be close to her and, through that proximity, to give it my best shot possible to earn her love.

It has been a very long and difficult road. There have been times when it has hurt more than I can say. But she is most definitely worth the effort (and even the hurt)... even if it never does work out.

[Gabbibo]

i wish to all to have the same positive moment which i had:l_sunny:

if you are sure about the love, you shouldnt be scarry to ask about the future

only when is real love - the relation survive:)

[Masichka]

Diana... I agree with you completely. The anticipation of having all those things in your relationship really is NOTHING until you actually have it.

It sucks to be in love with someone, but still go home to an empty house or go to sleep in an empty bed. It sucks to not have that person you truly love on your arm or holding your hand as you walk through a park or along a river. The most beautiful moments in life are those "small moments" like visiting friends or relatives together, going together to a theater, or just bringing her a cup of coffee in the morning as she is waking up.

These are the things that make life worthwhile, and to have these things, you have to be in a REAL relationship with REAL love. So, how long do we wait for it? How much of our lives do we let pass us by before we have what we deserve? And why do some of us wait SOOOO long on some long-distance, virtual relationship that may or may not finally lead to the real thing?

If you have enough faith, as Victoria and Rob did for three years, then when your faith is finally rewarded, the wait will seem worth it. But it seems to me that all of us get to a point where we can't wait much longer to trade our empty lives for full ones. Especially as we get older.

But, as I write this, it seems that I must be a hypocirte. I have been wating for someone for two years now. Waiting for her to be ready for what I am offering. Some days I think that the waiting is crazy and I should just forget about her and find someone else. But other times, I realize that I do LOVE this woman more than anyone I have ever known. So, I have no choice but to wait, because if I gave up and went to someone else, it would be a fake... my heart would still be where it is now.

I will add this, however: I have not sat back and tried to "win" her through long-distance communication. Part of the reason that I made the choice to relocate to Ukraine was because I was ready for a change and felt this was the right place for me to be. Part, of course, was to develop my business. But the biggest reason I made this decision was to be close to her and, through that proximity, to give it my best shot possible to earn her love.

It has been a very long and difficult road. There have been times when it has hurt more than I can say. But she is most definitely worth the effort (and even the hurt)... even if it never does work out.

May I ask you something? Because your story is not really clear to me. Are you sure that she loves you but it's not proper time, situation and so on.. to be together? Or do you still try to earn her love untill now and she does not respond to it? If it's too private - sorry for asking.....

[Voobrazheniye]

May I ask you something? Because your story is not really clear to me. Are you sure that she loves you but it's not proper time, situation and so on.. to be together? Or do you still try to earn her love untill now and she does not respond to it? If it's too private - sorry for asking.....

Arrggghhhh.... I posted a response to your question - or at least I thought I did. I must have lost my internet connection when I sent it, because I see that it is not here. Oh well... not motivated to try again at the moment. Maybe later.:(

[vitashenka]

Sometimes you have no to do, but just to wait :frusty::JC_cupidgirl:

[Sveta's Hero]

I am tired of waiting.:eek:

[cecilia]

I would be pleased to say "enough":Djust because it is one of my favourite word,but have not one to say it to:rolleyes::D

[krevedko]

I've had a couple of long-distance relationships, needless to say, neither of them worked.
The second one hurt me real bad, and it took a long time for me to recover.

So now I'm rather cautios of embarking on another long-haul. If I don't see any real desire to take the relationship to the following logical level in the person I'm corresponding with and suspect him of playing mind games, I say good-bye.

I know nothing is simple, and there can be some relevant reasons making it difficult for both persons concerned to meet as frequent as they would have liked to, but I also know that if I want something really badly, I would do everything it takes to make it happen. So if the other person keeps finding excuses not to meet or move on, that in my view might mean his/her desire is not strong enough.

[Gabbibo]

I am tired of waiting.:eek:

people !!!!!!! lets help him, so handsome and kind guy....he shouldnt be alone:heart:

[Sveta's Hero]

people !!!!!!! lets help him, so handsome and kind guy....he shouldnt be alone:heart:

Thanks :D But, I think I am oving in the right direction finally. Hopefully :rolleyes::p:)

[alenika]

I would do everything it takes to make it happen. So if the other person keeps finding excuses not to meet or move on, that in my view might mean his/her desire is not strong enough.
I have had similar experience and the same attitude now. That is, I still can wait and wait for long but should see the efforts from him.

[rainy-day]

in one day i waked up with my left leg:)
sms-ed my bfriend and said : ENOUGH !!!!!!!! i want a real bfriend and not online oder on the phone, i am hot blooded, i want love, sex, to go to the party not alone, to cook every morning to someone my b...it of omlet, to go on Sunday to my parents lunch with someone, to do that, that and that....... do what u want, but i am going to contuinue my real life

i thought he reacts negative but today...:yo:, i am near him

my answer at how long can u resist is: i dont waste my time
what about you?


Diana, dear, i think it is very difficut to have a distance relationship. because if he is near by and you want to see him is enough to give him a call. it is difficult to be most of the time alone, dreaming about him, wanting him to be with you.

on the other hand, what you win in a difficult way, you think is more precious. when you have to fight for soemthing the value of this "something" is higher. and a relationship which can walk over all obstacles, it makes it resist better.

......it's normal to not be happy all the time......we all are like this. with good days adn bad days :)

[Voobrazheniye]

I am tired of waiting.:eek:

Maybe you should change your username. How about, "sickowaitin4ulove"?:lol:

[Gabbibo]

Maybe you should change your username. How about, "sickowaitin4ulove"?:lol:



oder
IamsureURmylove:)

[brown-raider]

I waited over two years for my lovely wife but it was well worth it...
"WAY TO GO PAUL WHOO HOO! :kev:

[huney]

what about you?

I hit the end of my rope a couple of months shy of twenty years. Very dumb. :(

[zoroooo]

In general our "girlfriends" arent so avaiable in the weekends.....

zoroooo

[brown-raider]

I hit the end of my rope a couple of months shy of twenty years. Very dumb. :( so what does that mean?

[brown-raider]

In general our "girlfriends" arent so avaiable in the weekends.....

zorooooSo where are they on the weekends? with the other boyfreind?

[zoroooo]

my dear brownie,


good to see you back..enjoy my English:becky:

But now seriously many have hidden local boyfriends...And in the weekends many mariage celebrations, birthday parties of family, work parties, ect..and sure clossed phones .


zorooooo

[alpine-frolic]

By my recent experience i can say that a longdistance relationship cannot last not more than 3 months. Only to be taken as a statistical item.
Well, was it really a deep relationship running in both ways????

[alpine-frolic]

But other recent experiences demonstrate the contrary: people i had relations with recontacted me recently, perhaps something deeper could began...and then the relation could last more than 7 months.
To be taken only as a statistical item.

[my_darling]

During my life: one of my longdistance relationship lasted 5 years, another one (yep, internetBF) - 1,5 year, and the last one internetrelationship - 2 years. No results, no other boyfriends during those relationships, in the end - only dissapointments and wasting of feelings, hopes and time. 'Coz of that I told myself 4 years ago - enough! I made to much for virtual relationship and virtual love. The real is REAL, the virtual is a dream which leads to nightmare. That's why prefered to get marry man from reality. Of course, he isn't Prince by Dating site, but he is real one with all "-" and "+"so good known and learned by me, real woman!

[alpine-frolic]

During my life: one of my longdistance relationship lasted 5 years, another one (yep, internetBF) - 1,5 year, and the last one internetrelationship - 2 years. No results, no other boyfriends during those relationships, in the end - only dissapointments and wasting of feelings, hopes and time. 'Coz of that I told myself 4 years ago - enough! I made to much for virtual relationship and virtual love. The real is REAL, the virtual is a dream which leads to nightmare. That's why prefered to get marry man from reality. Of course, he isn't Prince by Dating site, but he is real one with all "-" and "+"so good known and learned by me, real woman!

Very persistant woman...

[my_darling]

No persistency, but unlimited trustfullness for endless promisses by virtual BF! On other hand, I've got great experience: if man wanna marry beloved woman - he does it, if no - then "loooooongterm relationship" :lol:

[alpine-frolic]

No persistency, but unlimited trustfullness for endless promisses by virtual BF! On other hand, I've got great experience: if man wanna marry beloved woman - he does it, if no - then "loooooongterm relationship" :lol:

I must agree here, 2 years is too long and 3 months not enough...

[8bigwheels]

you must know what you are waiting for, and if it is worth dont wait too long, but act:)

[Shadow-off]

I had a girlfriend once a long time ago when I was 18. She broke up and I didn't look for anyone else for 5 years; a year longer than my entire Navy enlistment at the time. I'm pretty stubborn about not accepting someone I'm not interested in. I'm even more stubborn now that I am older and have learned the value of living with the right person; not unless you enjoy getting married and divorced alot. :whistle:

[Voobrazheniye]

you must know what you are waiting for, and if it is worth dont wait too long, but act:)

True. But often, you may know what (or who you want), and you decide to take action. But what you find is that the person you want does not want you in return.

[Lonewolf74]

True. But often, you may know what (or who you want), and you decide to take action. But what you find is that the person you want does not want you in return.

Happens too often.... :(

V.

[Voobrazheniye]

Happens too often.... :(

V.

Yes... MUCH too often. I've never understood why this would happen to really great people.

[Shadow-off]

One problem we have here in LL/GG is that there is too much interference from some of the women here in the private lives of many of the men for the true purpose of LL/GG to be fulfilled. Ask yourself; how many couples have gotten married this year ?. Out of over 5,000 members you would would think at least one per month. So in my opinion the women here are really merely photos and chat buddies and really aren't interested in marrying anyone other than an extremely wealthy man. That indicates their focus also. Sorry to be negative but the proofs in the pudding. Admin really doesn't care if these gals run there feminist attacks and games on paying members as long as members continue to renew their membership each month; why should they care ? A typical example; I am writing to a woman I like a great deal. She writes back maybe every four days to a week. Do you think I'm going to be interested in marrying someone I'm that important to ? Not in this life.

[alpine-frolic]

Happens too often.... :(

V.

Let the scott and try with a real woman, you have more chance.