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Soulmate-Africa
09-20-2008, 08:51 AM
This morning when I open my mail in LL I received a letter from Lidia that her grandmother sister died during the night.
I just want to say to her family that we are with her in this time of tragedy
and we think and pray for strength in this time.

vitashenka
09-20-2008, 10:34 AM
We are guests in this life unfortunatly or even maybe fortunatly. Depends on from what side we look at death. It is always very hard to lose our close people, but it is even more harder to lose someone if deth wasnt natural. Let's think that frandmom's sister passed a good life and she went with calm heart to another world, maybe better than this one, who knows

Lucker
09-20-2008, 10:50 AM
I repeat my message which was deleted because it was deemed insensitive , presumably , " Why , are they all LL members"
I wrote it knowing I would take a lot of criticism but frankly to use this Forum to tell us about your girlfriend's grandmothers sister -- in terms of looking for sympathy is not my idea of good taste .
I take the view he should write privately to L and appropriate relatives , and handle a private matter with dignity

alpine-frolic
09-20-2008, 11:11 AM
I repeat my message which was deleted because it was deemed insensitive , presumably , " Why , are they all LL members"
I wrote it knowing I would take a lot of criticism but frankly to use this Forum to tell us about your girlfriend's grandmothers sister -- in terms of looking for sympathy is not my idea of good taste .
I take the view he should write privately to L and appropriate relatives , and handle a private matter with dignity


I will not deceive you: i had a sad new so 15 days ago. The young sister of my grandmother (peace to her soul)died in her 88 or 89 year, like her twin sister 2 years ago from Alzheimer. We will allways remember them even if they wasn't able to remember us...All family has been praying for them and perhaps so some LL members had done if they knew. I wish you to join with us in our praying...

alpine-frolic
09-20-2008, 11:13 AM
I will not deceive you: i had a sad new so 15 days ago. The young sister of my grandmother (peace to her soul)died in her 88 or 89 year, like her twin sister 2 years ago from Alzheimer. We will allways remember them even if they wasn't able to remember us...All family has been praying for them and perhaps so some LL members had done if they knew. I wish you to join with us in our praying...

;););););););)

jimsan
09-20-2008, 11:13 AM
Well, I kinda agree with Ramon but, having said that, many of us here feel a kind of comradeship with our fellow members and sometimes we share such moments with others.

We all share moments of happiness......so why not grief too.

Sveta's Hero
09-20-2008, 11:22 AM
When I lost my mother last October, the support I recieved from the people at the forum helped me and I am still thankful to all of you for this.

Soulmate, my condolences to your girlfriend and her family.

Crushik
09-20-2008, 11:23 AM
Well, I kinda agree with Ramon but, having said that, many of us here feel a kind of comradeship with our fellow members and sometimes we share such moments with others.

We all share moments of happiness......so why not grief too.

Jim :yo: :yo: :yo:

jimsan
09-20-2008, 11:25 AM
Sometimes it helps to share your sorrows with others.

Lucker
09-20-2008, 02:54 PM
Naturally , my sympathies are no different to anybody elses but somewhere there is a line to be drawn .
Don't forget that since I have written these two sentences , two African kids have died from poverty and/or Aids .
And tomorrow is the anniversary of my mother's brothers great , great , great , great , great , great , great grandmother's favourite Elephant , Jeremy , who lost his memory

Soulmate-Africa
09-20-2008, 08:21 PM
I repeat my message which was deleted because it was deemed insensitive , presumably , " Why , are they all LL members"
I wrote it knowing I would take a lot of criticism but frankly to use this Forum to tell us about your girlfriend's grandmothers sister -- in terms of looking for sympathy is not my idea of good taste .
I take the view he should write privately to L and appropriate relatives , and handle a private matter with dignity

Lidia is a LL member but saying this I would like to tell you I did not write this to look for sympathy but a simple few words.
Feel free to answer on the topic what you did and say what you wish to say.
But I would say always remember to respect other people. I respect you in much what you have written here on the forum and maybe I will always do it.
The forum is not just about marriage or relationships or politics but it will also contain sometimes the sorrow.

zoroooo
09-20-2008, 09:23 PM
I lost my Uncle 5 weeks ago....

I got him in my memory..he was Flemish and Belgian ..He told me at my 15Years that all his girlfriends he got came to visit him without underpants..If one came with he sended her back home..

I ever thought he was a wise man.


andré my uncle rest in peace.

Lucker
09-21-2008, 07:38 AM
[QUOTE=zoroooo;9613]I lost my Uncle 5 weeks ago....


Sorrow ,
Whether you like it or not , you must accept major responsibility for such negligence .
These days there are plenty of Personal leads to choose from and we take Vera shopping with her wearing a bright red one which has a tasteful label which says , " Do not Touch . Fock Off ". Works a treat .

zoroooo
09-21-2008, 08:30 AM
[QUOTE=zoroooo;9613]I lost my Uncle 5 weeks ago....


Sorrow ,
Whether you like it or not , you must accept major responsibility for such negligence .
These days there are plenty of Personal leads to choose from and we take Vera shopping with her wearing a bright red one which has a tasteful label which says , " Do not Touch . Fock Off ". Works a treat .

or welcome only one way in

alpine-frolic
09-21-2008, 10:52 AM
I lost my Uncle 5 weeks ago....

I got him in my memory..he was Flemish and Belgian ..He told me at my 15Years that all his girlfriends he got came to visit him without underpants..If one came with he sended her back home..

I ever thought he was a wise man.


andré my uncle rest in peace.

I usually don' have any attention for a flemish, but i can make an exception.