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CurlyDarling
10-02-2009, 01:36 PM
Sigmund Freud was born on May 6, 1856 in the Austro-Hungarian town of Freiberg, on the boarder of Prussia and Poland. His father was a poor wool merchant married for the third time to Amalie Nathansohn, who was old enough to be his daughter. They had children almost every year and Sigmund was their first one.

Freud’s father worked late at night, and his mother and her kids lived in a room they rented from an always drunk tinsmith. In the fall of 1859, the poor Freud family left Freiberg and moved first to Leipzig and then to Vienna.

But life in the capital didn’t make them rich. “Poverty and misery, poverty and extreme shabbiness,” Sigmund Freud used to say about his early childhood. He, however, used to recall his diligent studies in a lyceum, his success in learning languages, literature and philosophy, praises of his teachers and hatred of his school mates who made this curly straight-A student cry.

When he grew up, Freud got interested in politics and was studying law and later, philosophy. Soon, under his parents’ pressure, he commenced his studies to become a doctor. His teachers were skeptical since he was very inconsistent in his interests, superficial, and strived for fast and easy success.

Not without difficulty, Freud graduated from medical school and received an internship with the Institute of Physiology where he enjoyed studying fish breeding for six years.

“Nobody has ever seen eel testicles,” the researcher said proudly. “These were not eel genitals, these were rudiments of psychoanalysis,” would say Freud’s students later.

At the age of 22, Freud grew a beard to look more presentable, but it didn’t make him better with women. He was a virgin till the age of 30 and was very afraid to stay alone with women, which always made people laugh.

He met his spouse, Martha Bernays, a short, thin and pale 21 year old, on vacation. Sigmund was stunned by the girl’s sophisticated manners and for the first time in his life, he overcame his fear. However, his courtship was very strange.

Two months after their meeting he wrote her a letter saying that she was not pretty in a way sculptors and artists understand it. The lovers would fight and make up. Freud was jealous of his lady and would make ferocious scenes. However, he couldn’t marry her since didn’t have enough money.

Only two years later a chance to get rich presented itself. In 1884, he brought then little known alkaloid, cocaine, from Merck to Vienna. In the hope to be the first researcher who studied the substance, Freud invited his two friends as assistants and requested they start the research. He himself went for a vacation with his fiancée. Upon his return he found out that the cocaine research was completed without him and the world learnt that cocaine had a local analgetic effect.

“I am not upset with my fiancée for a missed chance,” Freud kept repeating, frustrated with a lost opportunity to make money. However, he later wrote in his autobiography that his engagement was the reason why he did not become famous while young.

Freud missed his second opportunity when he was interning with Dr. Sharko, the inventor of contrast shower. The doctor was involved in a profitable business treating hysterical women. Freud intended to reach great success in that area.

Before his departure for France, he wrote to his fiancée: “My little princess, I will come back with money. I will become a great scientist with a big halo over my head and we will get married right away.” But again he failed to get rich. This time it was Freud’s own fault.

While in Paris, the scientist snorted cocaine, drank absinth and wandered around upset with the looks of Parisian women. His cooperation with Dr. Sharko didn’t work out. Sigmund returned to Vienna, frustrated and willing to try the last resort – private practice.

He placed an ad in newspapers: “Treat various disorders,” and his patients came. Freud was unable to work with them sticking to the existing rules because he was afraid to look people in the eye. Looking for a way out, he came up with a strategy to lay people on a couch while he was sitting at the headboard. He didn’t ask questions and just listened very attentively.

The new approach turned out to be effective, and soon Freud used the term “psychoanalysis” for the first time in a medical journal. The number of his patients sharply increased, and, dreaming of riches, the doctor raised his prices. Soon a session with him was as expensive as a good suit.

To save time and money, Freud limited his sessions to 50 minutes. Many patients were ready to speak for hours, but Freud kicked them out explaining that time limits would help them to cope with their disorders. The principle of non-interference, or absolute indifference to a patient, became the essence of this pragmatic approach.

Having received long awaited fame and money, Freud suddenly fell ill. His diagnosis was horrible – oral cancer caused by chain smoking. In April of 1923, the scientist was operated on and given a prosthetic device. His life became unbearable; he could barely eat and talk.

Soon Nazis came to power in Germany, and Austria became a part of the Reich. This spelled problems for a Jewish doctor. After his daughter was arrested and he was investigated by Gestapo, Freud decided to leave the country.

The officials, however, were in no hurry to let him go. He had to humiliate himself by paying a large fine. His family was able to immigrate to London. There Freud’s health became hopeless. On September 23, 1939, by Freud’s request his attending doctor injected him with a morbid dose of morphine.

After Freud’s death, 1500 letters to a strange lady were found in his archives. They say the letters are sensational, but Freud’s will prohibited the letters release. The scientist who devoted his life to finding answers to great secrets of human psychics left his descendants to find answers to his own mysteries.

Maksim Kondratyev
Pravda.Ru

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Lucker
10-02-2009, 03:57 PM
An almost certain Coke Head , as were many scientists in this period . In fairness , it was first isolated as a pain killer and anaesthetic and the vast majority did not realise they were addicted until it was too late .

pouffe
10-02-2009, 05:53 PM
I know a stove that is not addicted even after many years of consumption, so let me say you give easily to others the bad habits you have.

Lucker
10-02-2009, 05:57 PM
Puff Ball ,
You are becoming as bad as Zorro . What is Stove ?
The only Stove I remember is Betty Stove the Dutch Tennis Star from 20?? years ago . She did not strike me as a smoker or Coke Head .

bobbyd
10-02-2009, 06:12 PM
that was extremely interesting M, thank you.

flash gordon
10-02-2009, 07:02 PM
An almost certain Coke Head , as were many scientists in this period . In fairness , it was first isolated as a pain killer and anaesthetic and the vast majority did not realise they were addicted until it was too late .

funny to see an ignorant always pointing out the vice of a person....as freud has to be remebered negativly .. anglosaxon scarness of own inside and vice...

dr love

flash gordon
10-02-2009, 07:05 PM
witches rituals.....

Lucker
10-02-2009, 07:47 PM
Come , come Zorro ,
Are you living in Neverland?
A coke head uses his imagination to produce huge "insights" into the working of the mind .
Are you going to blindly accept the guesses of a drug addict whose research background relies on the study iof 6 cases !!!!!!!!!!!!! ( from memory) . And there are grave reservations about his reporting accuracy in some of those .
Your unprovoked and unsupported remarks strongly indicate where the ignorance lies in this subject .

flash gordon
10-02-2009, 08:01 PM
Come , come Zorro ,
Are you living in Neverland?
A coke head uses his imagination to produce huge "insights" into the working of the mind .
Are you going to blindly accept the guesses of a drug addict whose research background relies on the study iof 6 cases !!!!!!!!!!!!! ( from memory) . And there are grave reservations about his reporting accuracy in some of those .
Your unprovoked and unsupported remarks strongly indicate where the ignorance lies in this subject .

to your info I did my deep spychoanalize...what I know about is what I know about me....No need to go to superficial sword games with an ignorant .. I did my spychoanalize with a pupil of Lacan which is more advanced than than the freudian school.

he published some cases ... but the field of freuds experience went far behond what he could publish with name of the cases.

My general coment about aglosaxon posts which are here on the forum in majority..Is that in a lot of cases you are all extremly judgementary..one advice try to talk with somebody about yourself ..great exercise. AND about sex no culture is so double about sex as englishmen do.americans arent not better....


zoroooo

Lucker
10-02-2009, 09:12 PM
Without getting into the technicalities of competing schools , I have to remind you that the English tend to be reticent about publicly boasting because we arevery happy in our skins .
We feel no need to prove ourselves , and our loving audience is testimony to our achievement .
We notice with amusement thast those who babble about sexual matters are some of the most confused and innefective of private performers .
I think Freud himself was a private failure and the term " sublimation" springs to mind .
Or should it be "inferiority complex " ?

Martini
10-03-2009, 01:06 AM
I would like to find out more about Simon Cowell's little intimate secrets.
And Ramon is cooking his famously delicious and flavorful potato (fore)skins tonight ;)

flash gordon
10-03-2009, 07:04 AM
Without getting into the technicalities of competing schools , I have to remind you that the English tend to be reticent about publicly boasting because we arevery happy in our skins .
We feel no need to prove ourselves , and our loving audience is testimony to our achievement .
We notice with amusement thast those who babble about sexual matters are some of the most confused and innefective of private performers .
I think Freud himself was a private failure and the term " sublimation" springs to mind .
Or should it be "inferiority complex " ?

in you text above you achive to put 5 diffirent judgement of values about poeple;

In spychonanalize it sympmatic for some obsessional mastering desease. and about others sexuality maybe a hint its always better to be occupied by yourself.talking about others will not divert you from own isues.Its not the first time you try to provoce on that field.


lavuun

Shadow-off
10-03-2009, 06:28 PM
I see Freud as one of the pioneers of the developmental transition of psychology. He had great contributions and also bad ones too. It is true that Freud had a coke addiction, however in his time many people did. Medical pharmaceuticals during his era, nearly all had some addictive component detrimental to human health. “Mrs. Winslow’s soothing Syrup” comes to mind; a heroin based cough syrup for adults and children. So just as cauterizing wounds with boiling oil, bloodletting, and the use of leaches to heal and promote wellness, is no longer accepted or practiced, such detrimental practices now litter the many volumes of historical medical knowledge. Psychology is no different in its development and is ever changing even now. I have always said that a college education is merely an acknowledgement of baseline knowledge that allows it's holders to explore, test, and expand current facts, and practices. The areas of neurology, psychopharmacology, mycology, genetics and virology are still in an infant stage of development open for expansion, discoveries and much better practices. I think all scientists need to evaluate current accepted practices and question many of them. Most psychopharmaceuticals act with an erratic shotgun effect targeting the specific problem but also affecting other areas of the brain detrimentally, in the name of “side effects and adverse reactions.”

http://wings.buffalo.edu/aru/preprohibition.htm

Lucker
10-03-2009, 08:42 PM
[QUOTE=flash gordon;114901]in you text above you achive to put 5 diffirent judgement of values about poeple;

Belgian Bum ,
Freud repeatedly said that a person is unfulfilled until the crutches have been thrown away --- religion was the matter most in his mind . Close call with sexuality .
It is very difficult to be without major fault or hang up -- as I know !!
But suppose you met some one who thought he saw his place in the Universe and was not unduly bothered about it . And could treat Sex like an excellent meal -- tremendous when it happened but hardly a necessity .
Your theory falls down completely .
Look to others for an Ego boost .
friendly
Carl Jung