Not Dine & Dash - Dine & RUNAWAY

[SueDeNiam]

Dinner date asked the rudest question/s. Though I was at my chosen restaurant - only a mile away from my home, the conversation was the ultimate 'back-handed' insults, I excused myself to the 'powder room' and called my neighbor/friend to come and pick me up, as this was obviously a sadist I'd dined with.

Nice meal, though he deserved not even the respect of a hand-shake or a pleasant good-bye peck on the cheek and thank you for the evening ...

How would you have handled the situation? Honestly this slug didn't evolve enough to deserve any human's company - could any of you have stayed and exchanged a pleasantry after a course mouth full of venum. He obviously had issues with women, and I just happened to be in his line of sight.

What was I to do?

PS: the shell fish here is in season, and not finishing it is an insult to my taste buds.

[statajack]

Firstly, I concur entirely on the shellfish front. That was the correct decision.

Secondly, once the shellfish course was finished, had enough of the rudeness, I would have had a bit of fun in return. Maybe gone for something like "I like dressing in black rubber and playing with chainsaws. Do you?".

:cool:

[SueDeNiam]

Firstly, I concur entirely on the shellfish front. That was the correct decision.

Secondly, once the shellfish course was finished, had enough of the rudeness, I would have had a bit of fun in return. Maybe gone for something like "I like dressing in black rubber and playing with chainsaws. Do you?".

:cool:

Well, I'd left my leather gear and whip at home unfortunately. Besides, it's far to hot and humid here in July for such gear, the sweat simply makes the black leather boots & waist synching corset far too sticky!

[Lucker]

How come you did not pick up on this guy before your famous dinner date ?
And what were these ever so dreadful questions ?
You must have big problems for him to upset you so much -- only a victim can be victimised !!
Just once was I surprised . After having lived the date and fluttered between brilliance , humour , sincerity and empathy I was told by the lady that she could not envisage circumstances where she would want a relationship with a person like me . A bit of a downer .
This happened some 20 years ago and I still occasionally wonder what her exact and various mental health problems were . And does she regret her one great life opportunity .

[SueDeNiam]

How come you did not pick up on this guy before your famous dinner date ?
And what were these ever so dreadful questions ?
You must have big problems for him to upset you so much -- only a victim can be victimised !!
Just once was I surprised . After having lived the date and fluttered between brilliance , humour , sincerity and empathy I was told by the lady that she could not envisage circumstances where she would want a relationship with a person like me . A bit of a downer .
This happened some 20 years ago and I still occasionally wonder what her exact and various mental health problems were . And does she regret her one great life opportunity .

Ramon! I had no idea your power for self-deprecation could actually inspire such a belly laugh. BRAVO!

PS: mum says she's glad she ran away as fast as she could - she only wanted sperm to create my retarded older brother. She chose better with my biological father/sperm donor, she learned her lesson. Something about apples falling from trees at certain distances ... whatever that means.

[Lucker]

There's nothing worse than being patronised by an Asian woman .

But you are right , I have a degree in self deprecation . It's quite useful when you are in a wheel chair .

[huney]

There's nothing worse than being patronised by an Asian woman .

But you are right , I have a degree in self deprecation . It's quite useful when you are in a wheel chair .

I am certain you will find there is something worse than being patronised by an Asian woman.

[Lucker]

When is this over the falls in a barrel routine scheduled ?

[huney]

What are your plans for Saturday?