What is the most important?

[katrin-78]

How beautiful/handsome she/he is - other not important
How much money she/he has (how reach is this person) other not omportant
How kind, sensible she/he is other not important
Sex only other not important

[cecilia]

life is not that simple to choose only one option:)

[katrin-78]

It must be a poll. I dont know why it posted as simple topic:confused::(

[Voobrazheniye]

life is not that simple to choose only one option:)

I agree, but I can say also that money is not a factor at all for me. The rest matters to some degree or another, but it's hard to say which is most important, because it's more about the overall qualities of the person... not looking for a particular quality.

But having said all of that... for me it still comes down to getting a sense, deep in my spirit, that this person is "right."

[brown-raider]

kind sounds good... but to be honest Beauty matters alot to me... a pretty face, a big Booty go along way...:p;)

[huney]

It's the whole package. When it's the right fit you know it down deep in your marrow - everything else is just window-dressing.

[foxy00]

kind, sensible, selfconfident and ofcourse SEX matters to me.
not so worried about money or looks..

[cecilia]

I agree, but I can say also that money is not a factor at all for me. The rest matters to some degree or another, but it's hard to say which is most important, because it's more about the overall qualities of the person... not looking for a particular quality.

But having said all of that... for me it still comes down to getting a sense, deep in my spirit, that this person is "right."if money is not factor at all for you:) maybe you can share a secret: how to live without money and get everything for free.like food or get some clothes in the shop,or another things which's necessary:rolleyes:i dont think that you will be getting any sense,deep in your spirit when you're simply starving.:)

[Voobrazheniye]

if money is not factor at all for you:) maybe you can share a secret: how to live without money and get everything for free.like food or get some clothes in the shop,or another things which's necessary:rolleyes:i dont think that you will be getting any sense,deep in your spirit when you're simply starving.:)

You are right, Cecilia, but I guess you misunderstood what I meant by money not being a factor. I mean that for me it is not a factor in whether I will fall in love with someone. I expect it to be my responsibility (primarily) to make sure that we have enough money to live a proper life. But the kind of woman I would be drawn to would would want and be fully capable of providing as well.

But whether she would have money or not would not be a factor in whether or not I could fall in love.

[my_darling]

exactly! money isn't a factor. Unfortunatly there isn't shown one important option on the list.
Reliable! Other isn't important. Under "reliable" I understand kind, smart (who knows how to earn money and to lead where it's needed), helpful and faithful person.

[Lucky]

reliable...
as huney said its whole pacage... for me its soul, mind, heart...
a person who can i trust, who will take me as i am just for being ME... who is smart, kind funny... who will care of me... who will be my umbrella in a rainy day... who will be a cup of hot tea at cold times... who will be smile at saf times...
just who will be my second half... :rolleyes: