the signs of love

[rainy-day]

i'm wondering how do we know we are in love? which are the signs?
i was talking to a friend and he told me the sign of love must be the heart beat. when you see the one you fell for, your heart starts beating as a trapped bird.

how do we know when someone is inlove with us, if is not saying anything?

for instance: if we would meet. me and you. and you'd be in love. would i be able to notice?

[belano4ka]

how do we know when someone is inlove with us, if is not saying anything?



There is one universal language -- body language. You definetly will see by the expression on his/her face (unless it's someone who has an ability to hide their emotions behind the poker face. Needless to say, lots of my friends have this ability, so you really don't know what is on their mind :) )

[Hoopy]

She spits, she likes you.

She swallows, she loves you. :rolleyes:

[belano4ka]

:lol::lol::lol: it depends on taste.

[Hoopy]

Well it depends on what I've cooked, I hope you understood I was talking about my cooking. :p

[belano4ka]

Well it depends on what I've cooked, I hope you understood I was talking about my cooking. :p

I though it was about the wine in plastic bottles...my bad :)

[bobbyd]

you always want to hold her

you want to do things for her (I said for not to...well that too)

yes, your heart does beat faster

you are very proud to introduce her to everyone you know

[bobbyd]

and yes, you would know

[Shadow-off]

I don't believe we truly know we love someone even though we may say it to them or feel the greatest desire to. If they are not physically living with us or physically together.
Would you trust your life on the word of another without ever having been with them physically for days at least ?

For me unless you are living with me physically in the same house and sleeping in the same bed beside me; there is no you at all. You are only an image, a wrtten group words, that may have profound meanings of love and devotion for me. But still they are only words to me. It's like trying to hold and kiss the air; you'll feel nothing but cold lips ; your own lips and only your lips. We cannot make any plans if we have not been together and there is no I'm yours and your mine that exists between us. There can also be no devotion to each other becuse you simply don't exist in REALITY.

[bobbyd]

I don't believe we truly know we love someone even though we may say it to them and if they are not physically living with us or physically together.
Would you trust your life on the word of another without ever having been with them physically for days at least ?

For me unless you are living with me physically in the same house and sleeping in the same bed beside me; there is no you at all. You are only an image, a wrtten group words, that may have profound meanings of love and devotion for me. But still they are only words to me. It's like trying to hold and kiss the air; you'll feel nothing but cold lips ; your own lips and only your lips. We cannot make any plans if we have not been together and there is no I'm yours and your mine that exists between us. There can also be no devotion to each other becuse you simply don't exist in REALITY.


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[Shadow-off]

Now I can come to see you if you invite me, and if I am able to come upon your invite. This will change the unknown reality factor, once I arrive physically in person together with you. Trust and faith in the other person, and theirs in you, can really happen at that time, but only then. Trust is the precursor to love. It has to happen first like a catalist is a biochemical reaction. Only when I can feel her tongue in my mouth do I know it's serious :becky::lol:

[Shadow-off]

To answer the last line for that person; You would see tears of joy streaming down my face and me running into your arms in the middle of the airport upon our meeting kissing your face and telling you how much I love you. That's how it would happen with me.

[sunontheway]

i'm wondering how do we know we are in love? which are the signs?


Overall weakness
Inclination to introspection
Dependence
Indecision
Lower self-appraisal
Dissatisfaction with yourself
Discrepancy
Emotional instability
Anxiety
Impatience
Losing consentration
Different vegetative disorder: pulse instability, blood pressure, heightened sweating....

... doctors call it neurosis :lol:

[Hoopy]

You miss a Celtic match for her :becky:

[sparkle]

i'm wondering how do we know we are in love? which are the signs?
i was talking to a friend and he told me the sign of love must be the heart beat. when you see the one you fell for, your heart starts beating as a trapped bird.

how do we know when someone is inlove with us, if is not saying anything?

for instance: if we would meet. me and you. and you'd be in love. would i be able to notice?

This happens every time one meets a new date, if it does not why bother going on the date. This also means one falls in love many many times...the divorce courts are full of em...so are dating agency :lol:

[elane-ellie]

i'm wondering how do we know we are in love? which are the signs?
i was talking to a friend and he told me the sign of love must be the heart beat. when you see the one you fell for, your heart starts beating as a trapped bird.

how do we know when someone is inlove with us, if is not saying anything?

for instance: if we would meet. me and you. and you'd be in love. would i be able to notice?

When I am near you
when I look in your clear face
talk to you in an animated way
and explore the vanities of life
with amazement and awe

when I feel your gentle
and protective hand
when I read your thoughts
when I lose myself in our
universe

when I breathe with you
move with you
when I lay aside
all the dark shadows of fate

and when I am you
and you are me
when our worlds
join together as one

then space is open
and limitless
then time stops
for an imperishably long
moment

then this warmth embraces all

then I begin
neither more nor less
then I begin to live

[1amongmany]

I don't think one would know the difference between the 'lust' or 'love' feelings when two people meet....its the feeling of loneliness when two seperate that one knows if it is love

[rainy-day]

When I am near you
when I look in your clear face
talk to you in an animated way
and explore the vanities of life
with amazement and awe

when I feel your gentle
and protective hand
when I read your thoughts
when I lose myself in our
universe

when I breathe with you
move with you
when I lay aside
all the dark shadows of fate

and when I am you
and you are me
when our worlds
join together as one

then space is open
and limitless
then time stops
for an imperishably long
moment

then this warmth embraces all

then I begin
neither more nor less
then I begin to live


......i might fall in love now, but you are already taken by madame

[rainy-day]

...and to all the men and the women here........:peace:

[elane-ellie]

......i might fall in love now, but you are already taken by madame

Rainy.. If love does live in someone's heart.. there's enough of it to love all and everything.. almost all and almost everything :)

[bucksbunny]

rainy,

love isnt mathematics or something to control..its .. and when its you have not to ask anybody you will feel it trough you with your soul and body. So more questions and insurrence you seek less possible love feeling wil reach. You can be light because of love as ill as eurofic as in pain all deep emotions passes .

less controll deeper the feeling to come..

dr love

[pouffe]

Does that means if somebody has a big carrot he is in love, doctor?

[bucksbunny]

dear poufe ,
the dialectic of love is complicated if they have no tools to feel loved.. so to all my women here friends and ex lovers who never felt loved despite my efforts.

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