Neilikka
09-02-2008, 03:30 PM
The question of sexuality is very debatable nowadays. I know many women who think Tom is sexy. Even those who don't like Cruise admit he's becoming sexier as he gets older.
There is also one famous woman whose sexuality provokes objections in the ranks of men - Sarah Jessica Parker. I have just read the rating of my favorite Maxim Magazine titled "The Most Unsexy Women." Sarah took the first prize there. That made me certain: one half of humanity is thinking too primitively. It is only being blind that can excuse the lack of attention to her refined charm. In my opinion Parker (as well as Jennifer Aniston) is one of those not numerous women who create themselves. Isn't it much more interesting that just marveling at what nature gave you, Angelina?
No, it is not - men answer. As the feeling of sexual excitement strikes men down earlier than we start our first cocktail and finish our meaty lecture about the frightening ecological changes on the planet, men have time only to notice the most obvious details such as breasts, lips, hair. Sometimes men also pay attention to manicure? But this is another level of the "male world." I don't try to humble you, guys. The idea is that you dispose yourself to notice the main details in everything. The other idea is that for a woman all the details are important. You can be 100 times Brad Pitt, but the way you looked at that 4-year- old girl with disgust tells me you won't be a good father. That can easily mean, "I don't want you anymore." Women generally don't separate soul from body. If we really want you, that means we want you entirely. And sometimes that is our biggest mistake.
Returning to details men don't care about... This directly refers to fashion. While we feel the need to refresh our wardrobe with the help of this stylish baggy gray dress, our boyfriends are still in love with "our skin-tight short red something," which can be out of fashion, but obviously not out of his sexual fantasies.
This may be connected with testosterone, which makes men more impetuous and straight-forward in everything. This may also be connected with different active brain zones of men and women. While discussing this subject one of my friends told me that if men are closer to mechanics in the way they perceive women, women are much closer to quantum mechanics or even to metaphysics.
Or maybe I am just jealous of Jolie's barefaced beauty.
By Anna Ozar
There is also one famous woman whose sexuality provokes objections in the ranks of men - Sarah Jessica Parker. I have just read the rating of my favorite Maxim Magazine titled "The Most Unsexy Women." Sarah took the first prize there. That made me certain: one half of humanity is thinking too primitively. It is only being blind that can excuse the lack of attention to her refined charm. In my opinion Parker (as well as Jennifer Aniston) is one of those not numerous women who create themselves. Isn't it much more interesting that just marveling at what nature gave you, Angelina?
No, it is not - men answer. As the feeling of sexual excitement strikes men down earlier than we start our first cocktail and finish our meaty lecture about the frightening ecological changes on the planet, men have time only to notice the most obvious details such as breasts, lips, hair. Sometimes men also pay attention to manicure? But this is another level of the "male world." I don't try to humble you, guys. The idea is that you dispose yourself to notice the main details in everything. The other idea is that for a woman all the details are important. You can be 100 times Brad Pitt, but the way you looked at that 4-year- old girl with disgust tells me you won't be a good father. That can easily mean, "I don't want you anymore." Women generally don't separate soul from body. If we really want you, that means we want you entirely. And sometimes that is our biggest mistake.
Returning to details men don't care about... This directly refers to fashion. While we feel the need to refresh our wardrobe with the help of this stylish baggy gray dress, our boyfriends are still in love with "our skin-tight short red something," which can be out of fashion, but obviously not out of his sexual fantasies.
This may be connected with testosterone, which makes men more impetuous and straight-forward in everything. This may also be connected with different active brain zones of men and women. While discussing this subject one of my friends told me that if men are closer to mechanics in the way they perceive women, women are much closer to quantum mechanics or even to metaphysics.
Or maybe I am just jealous of Jolie's barefaced beauty.
By Anna Ozar