WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU DONT WANT CONGRATULATE SOMEONES BIRTHDAY AND WANT THEM TO KNOW??

[snow_flake]

I have been thinking of this dilemma for a while

Some ppl you want to congratulate - you do - and all is ok:)

Some ppl you dont want to congratulate - you dont - and all is ok.:rolleyes:

But what about the third group????? Those you dont want to congratulate - but at same time you also want them to know you DONT.:mad:

My hair has turnes grey and headache has growned bigger from day to day when i have been trying to find a solution.:eek:

And today i found an indirect solution - why not ask all the people here who obviously are much better and more clever and 10 times smarter than me here to help solve this!!!!!!

I will wait in patience for your answers :flame:

[Sveta's Hero]

Send them a pm telling them to go to hell. That usually let's them know.:becky:

[Crushik]

Erik, if some ppl don*t wanna to congratule for someones with any event of their life - they cannot to congratule, it*s their deciision, their lifes. Certainly it*s not pleasant thing when some of friends don*t do it if you*d to share a joy of special day or so with them :(
Sometimes ppl whom you didn*t wait for this from - making nice surprises than whom you wished they could make from :confused: IMHO

[Sarah]

I have been thinking of this dilemma for a while

Some ppl you want to congratulate - you do - and all is ok:)

Some ppl you dont want to congratulate - you dont - and all is ok.:rolleyes:

But what about the third group????? Those you dont want to congratulate - but at same time you also want them to know you DONT.:mad:

My hair has turnes grey and headache has growned bigger from day to day when i have been trying to find a solution.:eek:

And today i found an indirect solution - why not ask all the people here who obviously are much better and more clever and 10 times smarter than me here to help solve this!!!!!!

I will wait in patience for your answers :flame:

I do it in the best way I can - I take a nice card and write just one formal line - something like - Happy birthday, John! And believe me, John understands that I do not want to talk to him anymore, when he receives something like that from me.

[snow_flake]

Send them a pm telling them to go to hell. That usually let's them know.:becky:


Maybe u already have created a " i dont want to congratulate " card?????????:becky:

[snow_flake]

QUOTE=Abra;28208]I do it in the best way I can - I take a nice card and write just one formal line - something like - Happy birthday, John! And believe me, John understands that I do not want to talk to him anymore, when he receives something like that from me.[/QUOTE]

I see. Not bad in fact.
But these people i " want to know i dont want to congratulate " usually have a lower mentally level than most of the actors in " Brain Dead II " .:cheer2:

Therefor its here its not enough to make some hidden messages - u should be very direct:director:

[snow_flake]

Erik, if some ppl don*t wanna to congratule for someones with any event of their life - they cannot to congratule, it*s their deciision, their lifes. Certainly it*s not pleasant thing when some of friends don*t do it if you*d to share a joy of special day or so with them :(
Sometimes ppl whom you didn*t wait for this from - making nice surprises than whom you wished they could make from :confused: IMHO

This is posted into joke section, Sveta :becky:

[Crushik]

This is posted into joke section, Sveta :becky:

I*ve seen it , Erik, but it could be a serious thing either if to think :p

[snow_flake]

I*ve seen it , Erik, but it could be a serious thing either if to think :p

I am always at least 25% serious, Sveta;)

[vitashenka]

I won't congratulate you 1487

:peace:

[Hoopy]

Send them a letterbomb :eek:

[alpine-frolic]

Send them a letterbomb :eek:

Not good:nono:, they will not have time to read the signature.

[1amongmany]

But what about the third group????? Those you dont want to congratulate - but at same time you also want them to know you DONT.:mad:


why would you want to? for what purpose?

[snow_flake]

I won't congratulate you 1487

:peace:

But i would notice:becky:

[snow_flake]

why would you want to? for what purpose?

I am old scout, so therefor i have learned " its always better to be prepared" ;)

[brown-raider]

you can borrow a few sheep from Hoopy and send them over to eat the offenders grass...:becky:

[bucksbunny]

Maybe snowwy


you could concider that he know you dont know how to know to be sure knowing he is in a doubt that you know he know you dont feel he should know already what you feel about his knowledge of you feeling that he know already your feel about all this..

belgian bunny

:peace::peace::yield::yield:

[sunontheway]

Try this

http://www.cartoonstock.com/lowres/bst0016l.jpg